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Question:Some ask how to protect my children from the influence of a bad company, they often spend their time with their friends more than their parents because they are in school and have common interests, but I am afraid of accompanying some bad people, which will negatively affect their morals and academic level. To deal with this situation, what is your advice to young people to choose a good friend?
Answer:In the name of Allah, child production and education is one of the most difficult things of life in society, but it does not mean that we give up our duty. Parents should monitor their children at all stages of their lives without the child’s knowledge that he/she is being monitored. It is the best way to watch the behavior and tendencies of the child. There must be some nice parks made for children, where you may go out with your children to such places to teach the child that you are not neglecting him and you are not hard on him. There is a need for cooperation between the child's guardian and the responsible party in the school, especially those of teenage girls. We have been informed about things that we are embarrassed to write in this answer, but they are known to the honorable and the wise. The guardian must not be in the way that has been reported to me, for instance, I have been informed that the responsible party in the school or the university decided to that the uniform of the girls is to be decent. The father of one of the girl-students has come and asked from the authorities to give his daughter the freedom to wear what she likes and do what she likes. Woe to such a father on the Day of Judgment. Thus, the responsibility is of the father and mother is to use wisdom, exhortation, ethics and guardianship in the necessary amount and strict monitoring. We have a book entitled “To the Youth”, you may use it. Allah bless.
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