Question:How can a person earn the love of others, whether they are old or young members of the family and others, because he treats them with love and they treat him harshly, and he prays to put the love of these people into his heart, but it is in vain. They still have hard hearts, even young children are cruel and they do not respect and do not love some family members. So what is the tried-and-true supplication or a Surah that this person can use, which makes the children of the family and the others love him, and the enmity between them is removed? Please provide a solution to this person's family problem and how he earns the love of family members, especially the young and old and others, or is there no solution?

Answer:In the name of Allah, be advised, my son, that creating love and respect in the heart is not sufficient for the desire of a believer like you, unless the second party is pure in soul and free of bad residues. The greatest proof for that is the effort of the infallible prophets and imams (PBUT) and other righteous servants of Allah to strive to win people’s love and plant their love for Him in their hearts. However, they were not able to do that, not because of a shortcoming in the subject; rather, because of a shortcoming or deficit in the receiver - the second party. However, my son, you must strive for what you desire and you are rewarded of divine mercy in this world and the hereafter, and you have to aim for closeness to Allah Almighty. Allah is the Guide and Knowing.